Heh. So nice to meet a like-minded soul in that regard. :)
I guess I've kinda been where you are. I came out as bisexual in high school, and then started to label myself as a lesbian because I didn't think I was attracted to guys (I'm much pickier about guys than I am with girls, even today). Enter in a guy that I fell in love with and, well, that confused me to the point where I decided the labels didn't matter. I would just do what felt natural and not sweat the details. Though we are different as I've never thought of guys as the vanilla pudding box to the creme brulee of girls. :)
About Willow: half the fun of fandom is trying to reconcile the inconsistencies in the canon material, which is kind of what got me started on this whole subject in the first place.
Oh, true. That's just one inconsistency I don't feel the need to try to explain (Probably the only one, truth to tell). Mainly because I feel sexuality is fluid and individual anyway, so I don't bother speculating on other people's sexuality. I enjoy reading other people's thoughts on it, though, even if I don't have much to contribute.
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Date: 2009-03-30 11:21 pm (UTC)Heh. So nice to meet a like-minded soul in that regard. :)
I guess I've kinda been where you are. I came out as bisexual in high school, and then started to label myself as a lesbian because I didn't think I was attracted to guys (I'm much pickier about guys than I am with girls, even today). Enter in a guy that I fell in love with and, well, that confused me to the point where I decided the labels didn't matter. I would just do what felt natural and not sweat the details. Though we are different as I've never thought of guys as the vanilla pudding box to the creme brulee of girls. :)
About Willow: half the fun of fandom is trying to reconcile the inconsistencies in the canon material, which is kind of what got me started on this whole subject in the first place.
Oh, true. That's just one inconsistency I don't feel the need to try to explain (Probably the only one, truth to tell). Mainly because I feel sexuality is fluid and individual anyway, so I don't bother speculating on other people's sexuality. I enjoy reading other people's thoughts on it, though, even if I don't have much to contribute.